A cool guy is one who doesn’t seek approval, doesn’t fear disapproval, has a sense of humor, is on his own path in life without asking permission, and respects other people’s opinions because they are on different paths. Learn more about status and on being a cool guy below...
Status and on Being A Cool Guy
So what is being a cool guy? For one, a cool guy is someone who does not seek others’ approval. A cool guy is someone who does not fear disapproval or being rejected. He must be able to seek his own path without asking or seeking permission from others. Most of all, a cool guy is someone who respects other people’s opinion. Another factor of being a cool guy (especially for women) is confidence in yourself and your own actions. This might be a crucial factor when approaching a woman or even asking her out on a date.
If and when you care about what other people think of you, it is basically you are saying that “YOUR OPINION OF ME IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN MY OPINION OF MYSELF”. This is not someone who is aligned with his personal mission and life’s purpose.
Basically, this is not a healthy mindset. If you are committed to living your life as a cool and free guy, you have to establish a non-reactive equanimous mind and one that is detached from any outcome. This is basically a path for your own liberation from the attachments of being needy for people’s approval of you.
You have to be committed to a goal and at the same time not be attached.
Once you learn how to let go and understand that everything in life is changing and that nothing is constant, you will be on the right track.
Being one of the cool guys will give you that perspective of being non-judgmental. This will automatically draw more people to you, as you make them feel comfortable. You also have this dismissive attitude where others could care less of what other people think of them. This is definitely an attribute that is attractive in the eyes of not just men but women too.
In today’s society, you tend to attract the people that are more like you. If you are one of the cool guys, then you are most likely to attract other cool guys. If you are on the lame side, well, you can’t expect to attract your opposite. If you by any chance, establish your high status in the society, you will be someone that women will be attracted to and not repelled by. The higher your social status is, the more women will want to be appreciated and recognized by you. Why? Well, for one, being with you will also raise their social status.
This philosophy is not new at all. It actually goes back to the caveman age. Men always provided survival skills for their women. This includes, hunting for food, protection (from both men and wild animals), and providing shelter. We also know that it’s a woman’s duty to nurture and love you, and basically to raise your children. The better your survival skills are the more women would want to be with you. This is the same logic since the time of Adam and Eve. Basically, if you are a cool guy, both men and women would want to be with you.
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